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2008-03-26T01:17:55Z

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opheliasrevenge @ 2008-03-25T21:15:00

2008-03-26T01:17:34Z

In 1979 (the year you were born)

Jimmy Carter is president of the US

A major accident occurs at a nuclear reactor on Three Mile Island near Middletown, PA

An American Airlines DC-10 loses its engine and crashes seconds after takeoff, killing 275 people

Hurricane David kills over 1200 in the US and the Dominican Republic

Some 90 people, including 63 Americans, are taken hostage at the American Embassy in Tehran, Iran

The Soviet Union invades Afghanistan

ESPN starts broadcasting

Aaliyah, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Norah Jones, Heath Ledger, and Kate Hudson are born

Pittsburgh Pirates win the World Series

Pittsburgh Steelers win Superbowl XIII

Montreal Canadiens win the Stanley Cup

Kramer vs. Kramer is the top grossing film

Sophie's Choice by William Styron is published

"My Sharona" by The Knack spends the most time at the top of the US charts

The Facts of Life premiers

What Happened the Year You Were Born?

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2008-03-26T00:57:49Z

In 1979 (the year you were born)

What Happened the Year You Were Born?

Happy New Year

2008-01-02T03:31:51Z

Seems as if no matter how hard I try not to hurt those around me I do. I say to much or not enough I don't warn when I should and I open my mouth when I should just shut up and leave it be. Well I am not one for drama at least I try not to be. For the most part I don't have it in my life and I like it that way. So to anyone who cares to read this if I have hurt you in the last year I am sorry. If I tried to tell you things that were hard to hear because I thought you should know and that only hurt you I am sorry. If I didn't warn you when I should have I am sorry. If you have no clue what this is about then great if not I think I have everyone covered. Oh if you are some of the people I may have actually helped by being honest and telling the truth as I knew it. Your Welcome.

opheliasrevenge @ 2007-12-29T21:11:00

2007-12-30T02:11:03Z

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2007-12-30T02:08:16Z

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2007-10-18T18:32:25Z

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Have I been busy

2007-10-18T14:00:52Z

ok quick update I had another baby 2-9-07 baby girl Morgan Elizabeth 8lbs 8oz.

We bought a cottage this summer on lake Erie. For all of you out there who have been we bought like the biggest one on the beach so you better get your passport if you don't have it yet. There will be parties next summer.

Have you ever noticed that when things are going good sometimes life thouws you a great big curve and it can get even better?

New people around us right now have deffinatly made me feel something I never thought possible. I understand Bud and MO and honestly I don't hate them anymore. How weired is that? I don't care what there reasons where I don't care if I ever know or don't I am ok with them.

ANyway I am still alive just thought I would let you all know. Jason I have a group comming on Saturday.

Thanksgiving will be November 18 contact me if you are planning on coming.

opheliasrevenge @ 2006-06-12T22:07:00

2006-06-13T02:07:43Z

Who's Your Inner Buffy Bad-Girl? Find out @ She's Crafty

Ok everyone sit down!

2006-06-13T02:02:09Z

Ok everyone this is so that everyone finds out at the same time or at least I don't get blammed for telling one person before someone elts.

Are you ready? Really ready? here goes

I am proud to anounce that John and I are expecting a baby this Febuary 7, 2007!

Ok so Dennis and Jason I will need lots of love and hugs because I have not told Bud and Mo yet. I don't want to be the talk of Amandas wedding and take her thunder away on her big day at the end of this month. Beside I am only 6 weeks so I have time still before I should be telling them.

I just wnated you guys to know and did I mention I need hugs. I am stressing about getting the house in order before I go back to work 7-10-06 days M-F at Comcast here in ann arbor like five mineuts away.

Oh yah I am doing IT work for them how crazy is that? Hey even worse Johns the one who tought me enough to pass there test and now I am going to make more than him. hehehe I just have to laugh about that. But I will have five weeks of training so I should be good to go after that.

I want to Kill my husband

2006-05-17T14:28:08Z

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Ok Now I feel a little better. I don't know how much more of the oh I promis next time I will listen to you because you seem to have this figured out better than me shit I can take. He promised me that last time and the time befor that and the time before that.

For all of you who don't know John he is taking a night class tht meets t,w,th, for 10 weeks. He lost his finacial aid last semseter becasue even thought I told him he was signing up for too many classes (3) pluss a full time job he did so anyway and then ended up droping one and that left him with not enough credits for the finacial aid people to be happy with which he knew would be a problem if he droped instead of just waiting to take it at another time.
Well now he is in danger of loosing his job. I want to see John graduate and I know he can do it but he has gotten to the point where he hates his job and I think he is going to let himself get fired and be like oh I didn't see this comming. In the last two weeks he has missed work twice becasue he overslept his alarm or went back to bed. I think its not only the class but the fact that even at 10 pm last night when I was trying to get him to get off the computer he still needed more time to game. Hes not even doing homework hes just gaming. Ahhh!

He has to get up at 3:30a.m. and he stays up half the night of course he is going to oversleep and be late. He is also in DWAP which is there writen up process becasue of how many times he has been late. If he is late one more time then he has to make it 9 months and then the next time he is late its 12 months without being late, Well lets just say I hope he can keep his job long enough for me to start mine. Then he will probably quit or get fired or something but by then I can at least handel the bills. Its not as if he would even be able to make money babysitting since everyone does not think he handels our kids very well and they don't want him watching theres for any extended period of time.

I just wish that all of his promises of hey you seem to actually know what I can handel and can't so I promis I will listen to you next time were true instead he shoud just tell the truth and say hey I want to fuck us finacially and don't give a crap I just barrow money from my mom. well I am sure that that will not last for ever and I don't want to be fiancialy dependent on anyone let alone his mom. We are grown ups I just wish the stupid hours of gaming were gone and he would act like it.

If anyone out there has any ideas that might help please send them my way.

I am Finished

2006-05-12T04:55:23Z

I finally finished my last exam! I graduate this weekend! I have waited a long ass time for this. To everone who said I wouldn't do it please come and Kiss my Ass! To everyone who said my life was over becasue I have kids get in line. To everone who has not been suportive of my goals and helped me get here get in line to.

Ok now everone elts Thank you for everything that you have done to help me get this. I know I did the work but there were a lot of people who believed in me and help me get here. I have to thank my wonderful husband for suportting me being in school and allowing me to take so much time to concintrate on my studies. My beautiful kids who have allowed me to take time away from them so I could get this degree. To Hillarty, Em, and Amanda who helped with the kids so I could go to my classes. Jason and Dennis thank you for believing in me even when I didin't believe in myself and for pushing me to do what needed to be done. Thank you all!

I will have John take lots of pics for everyone and have a party latter this summer I hope.

I love you all have a great weekend and Happy Mothers Day to all whom it applies.

Oh my God I NEED a F@#$ING JOB

2006-04-26T03:44:51Z

AHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Feel a little better. I have been looking for a job now for just a little under a year and besides Target which lasted about a second and a half I have gotten no where. I can not handel this I will finally finish school and graduate from Northwood this May with my BBA but I still don't have a job. I can not tell you how upsetting it has been getting offers that I can not except becasue I would have to move. I cann't move becasue I share custody of my daughter with my ex and moving would mean giving her to him full time. I could not handel not seeing my kids.

How do I get a good start with a company and make a living and help support us. John... oh god I love him but sometimes I know he is trying to make things better and help; I love being home with the kids and going into help with Serena's school, field trips, bible school, dance, horseback ridding lessons, Connors play dates, and Educational classes. And yes I do go to school two nights a week for three more weeks.

But I need something for ME. Is that so bad? I know he thinks that telling me to stay with the kids and not worry myself about getting a job right now is his way of making it easier. But then that means that family vacations we want to do and diffrent things we would like to do this summer have to get cut out. I need a vacation just like the rest of us and I don't want money to be so tight all the time. I just want a chance to prove how good I am and start my career.

I love being home with the kids but I am no Dona Reed anyone who has ever been to my house knows that I am not the best at having it always clean. I keep it picked up but don't try and eat off my floors you might get some of Connor snack from earlier. Hes one its the age I know but still it feels like I am loosing a battel that no matter how hard I try I can not win. Yet I know that there are those people who do win this battel. It does not help that we live in the block that time forgot. All of my neibors are stay at home moms who love it and I seem to be the odd one out. Sometimes I feel like in the movie "The Hours" the middle lady who can not seem to bake a cake and get it to come out good. Her neibor comes over and makes fun of her becasue who can not get a cake to come out good? Well me thats who and my house is a mess sometimes ok most of the time and no don't open any doors that are closed they are closed for a reason.

I need to go to sleep I have a doctos apointment in the morrning and I need to get to sleep I just have not been able to do much of anything tonight. Oh I am so mad about my insurance too I just got a bill for my blood wook for $130. thats after they paid there stuff holy shit I can not afford that and they will want to do more tomarrow. Thats another rant for another day I guess.

I am still alive

2006-03-14T04:49:11Z

Hello everyone

I know its been forever since I was on and yes I am still alive. Serena and Connor just had there birthday party this past weekend. It was great and they had a lot of fun. Thank you to everyone who was able to come they really enjoyed it. P.S. Uncle Jason Serena wants you to teach her to dance becasue you do it better than mom! Ahh are we already at that point? Oh well at least you can dance better than me.

Hello Everyone yes I am alive

2005-09-08T11:23:19Z

Hello all

I know its been forever since I was on. Everything is going great for us. Connor is a joy! I was able to finally win a four year custody battel with my ex-husbend and have Serena for the school year. She is doing wonderful here in Ann Arbor. I think its working out for the best that she will grow up with her little brother and have the stablity that we provide her.

Things that are happening with us. Yes we did get married last month. Wookie has just been hired by Tech Team and is still working at Fords. He has the same job just more money and stability because its not through the temp agency any more. He is also at WCC this semester look for him durring the day if you go M-Thur he is there. I am hopping to reach directorship in Mary Kay by NOvember 30. It is so amazing that it has provided so many oppertunitys for us. I can not say how important being able to be with the kids and work has been. Not to mention the money:)evil smile. Anyway may next post wont be to long comming I hope.

OH Jason and I won the charrity chill cook off over the holiday weekend at the lake. And over the hole weekend they raised over $3,000.00 to go to Katrina

Courtney

IT'S A BOY!!!

2005-08-31T01:31:05Z

I just wanted to make an announcment to this journal.
Courtney and Wookie welcomed a bouncing baby boy into their family on March 15th.

CONNOR ROBERT is a joy to be around and I wish the proud parents all the best!

Also Courtney and Wookie made it official last month and are now Mr & Mrs Wookie!!!

I just wanted to give a quick update for the busy mom on her LJ. Plus I made this really cool icon of her son, so I had to show it off!!!

J*son
(8x10glossy)

Happy Birthday to Me

2004-12-07T21:01:10Z

Hello Everyone

I am doing good. I am old today is my birthday and it has rained all F'ing day so far. I fought this morning with Wookie and he was trying to do nice stuff it all just kind of fell through. I was still a Bitch about it though. I guess I just wanted it to go the way I wanted it to and when it didn't I got crabby. I think the contrations for the past two days didn't help. I have been preaty good about staying home and not doing anything I am not suposta be doing. Of course because of that my house is trashed and I know that he is trying to help. I just get crazy about stupid shit sometimes and you would think after two years he would get it but no he doesn't. I need to go to the Secretary of State and get a new licence and tabs but I think I will just pay the late fees and do it another day. I don't wnat to drag me and Serena out in this again. It is so nasty and I am just starting to warm up from going to the bank earlier.

Oh by the way I hate the people at the bank. I just wanted to go to my bank and deposit three checks sounds easy right? wrong! First check was drawn from there own bank and the lady was like I can't find record of this account. Even after I told her look they have like five accounts here they are not all there SS# you dumb whore. Then John had a check he signed over because I didn't want to have to run to the other bank too. I tried to deposit that and was told it would take 10 days of hold because it was out of state. Then I pointed out to her that it was not an out of state check it was from Jackson, MIchigan. When did that become out of state? I don't know but aparently she thought it was. So I decided not to give her that check and just take it to the other bank latter. Then my favirt my grandmother always sends me $25 canadian in check form every year. I wanted to deposit it into my account and said its drawn on canadian funds. Oh I don't know how to do that said the lady. I told her I have been doing this every year since I was 18 at this bank and never had a problem. They take the check hold it for 15 days or some other outragus amount of time and then send me a letter telling me that some $12 amount was deposited on such and such a date. This lady refused my check and I am pissed about the whole thing. So if someone would like to give me a nice present please kill the f'ing bitch who would not do her job at the bank or get her fired that would work too. Thanks

Hello All I am still alive

2004-11-30T03:08:33Z

Hello Everyone

I am still alive and well. Well kind of well anyway. I am six month pregnant and doing ok much better than with Serena. I have been having one of those nights when you just wish it would end. I need to finish two pages of my reaserch paper due tomarrow. The bank will not let me ues my debit card even though the cash is in the bank. I have been fighting with them to fix it all day. I need to place an order tonight for my mary kay stuff and don't have another card to use. I want someones head on a plate tomarrow for all of this crap. The phone company called my today and said that I needed to pay $256. today or they were shutting off the phone. I was floored because I had just made a $150. payment to them less than two weeks ago and that had brought me current. Somehow someone has been charging calles to my account and has opened up a telephone card on my account which was not us and has charged this. They shut off my phone. I still have to find out what the he!! happened. I just want to kill someone. Why does this stuff always happen at the same time?
Ok now I feel a little better I just was able to make my order through my Director Linda she is so wonderful. I just have to drop off the cash tomarrow which will not be a problem. Ahh one thing down 199 to go.
Well thats my rantings for now.

opheliasrevenge @ 2004-08-03T20:46:00

2004-08-04T00:46:38Z

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Jack A@@ EX

2004-05-25T21:16:18Z

So you would thing by now I would be used to Joe pulling this crap right? Well, no I try and hold out hope that there must have been something good in him? That he would come to his senses and be a little human again. Something that would make him just a little less of an a@@ would be nice.

Anyway, he sends me this letter that obviously his mother wrote for him because, well, that is one thing I do know about Joe, he writes like a kid. This is professional and well writen and complete shit.

In this letter he says that while we were together we wanted Serena to go to private school. Well, since we were getting foodstamps and shopping at goodwill I dont think that we agreed to do that. In fact at the time I think we were just trying to survive.

He also offers to pay for her schooling if she goes to Cabrini. Where his mother lives and she can take care of her. Isn't that nice for her. But you can't even help pay for her dentist bill or for medication because you have not worked in three years yet you have the money to send her to private school.

OH! I wish someone whould sit him down and make him see reason. I don't want his mother, who by the way has emotionally crippled her children and is either very ill herself or a liar who is on disability, to raise my child. He may not have a problem with that, but I do!!!

We are buyiung a house!

2004-04-09T02:54:11Z

Hello everyone

Sorry it has been a long time since my last post. I have been busy. I got a new job at the Ann Arbor Lowes on Carpenter. I am happy. Dennis is my boss but he is cool. I think it's a little wiered for him. Also still working at Mosaic. Anyway, things are finally coming together in my life.
Wookie and I are buying a house in Ann Arbor. 3 Bedroom 2 Bath large house that we can afford. Nice area S. Waters and Scio Church rd area. exit 74 or 75 I think off 94. Still learning the area though it will take a little time. We are taking the kiddo out to see it Friday on the way out to Wookie's mom's. She will like that we are closer and even said she might visit.
I just got my report card I got a B and C+. Not great but things have been so crazy I am glad I did ok. I hope Wookie does ok this semester. I am worried he has been so busy at work and with everything else, it's beeen hard for him.
I hope that we can work something out with Joe. I hope that this does not have to get messy. I just want my daughter during the school year and I know that is going to be a fight. Keep us in your prayers.
Oh yeah, I almost forgot. Joe is getting married to a girl this October. Right now she lives in Flordia and is leaving a good job and trying to get transfered up hear. Joe is still looking for work and has not found anything that I am aware of.

Please someone give me good reasons not to kill him....

2004-01-02T05:25:47Z

OK, well lets start at the beginning. On Tuesday I meet with Joe my ex-husband and father/sperm donner to my child. Things started off ok we talked about Serena and her starting dance classes or gymnastics. He wants her to do horseback riding lessons this summer. I pointed out that they would be very expensive, he didn't seem to care about the price. However, he can not help with the cost of dance classes because he has not had a job in over two years. He just finished the school thing though and thinks that he will be able to get a job right away. I personally hope that he can. Then I brought up the fact that I thought we should talk about Serena's school situation. He lost it! Apparently he feels as if I have made all her schooling decisions without him. Well if you consider picking a daycare for her starting January 2002 till now then he is right. We have joint physical custody and he has her every other week and can send her where ever he sees fit on his weeks but chooses to let his mother who does not work watch her. That is still his decision. He did come to me this fall offering to pay for a monasory school that was offered through St. Farncis Cabrini. However, it was inconvienent to me( out of my way), didn't seem to have a lot of the things that I wanted her daycare to have,(i.e. room to move and play)I don't know if he ever went to check it out, but in half of a class room they had 30 three year olds. Not enough room to spread out and move around like the kids need. They also were under construction for eight hours of the day. No free play?? Hello she is a kid. Anyway I didn't want her to go so I declind his offer letting him know that he could send her there on his weeks but that I would not be sending her there. He decided not to send her. His choice not mine. Now he says that I am not letting him have a choice in her schooling. Why does he not remember before I enrolled her telling him to please check out the school and asking him if he would send her there when he got a job two years ago. Now after she has friends and has been there for the last two years he wants something convienient to him. She just has to adjust to what he wants.

Anyway we got nowhere to say it nicely. He was asked three times to lower his voice by staff and a patron at the restaurant. I want to be able to work with him unfortunatly toward the end he brought up getting a lawyer and fighting me so that he could have "his way". I tried telling him it should be what is best for Serena not what is best for him or me; and that fighting over it in court would defitnatly not be best for her. He feels that I think that being with me is what is best for her. I have to admit that I feel that way but at the same time I know that she needs to maintain a good relationship with him and his family for her to be well adjusted and feel loved. No matter what he does he is her father/spearm doner.

So he changes his story everytime I talk to him. I know that I can not count on him and hope for her sake that he gets it together soon before she realizes that as well. I want so much for him to either shape up or move to Flordia where his new girlfriend lives.

Fast forward to today. I call Joe this morrning. He was supposed to bring Serena home at 10am today, he forgot what time we discussed and agreed to almost two months ago. He said he didn't have access to a car so I would have to go and pick her up. I got there about 10:45a.m. I was not prepared to leave when I had called him. Got there and picked her up. Not a problem. We went to get a bit to eat before taking her to a movie. When we got inside I took off her coat and was ( I would like to say shocked, but unfortunitly just disapointed) the shirt that she was wearing had been one I had bought for her some time ago summer/fall 03 and had sent over shortly there after. I had not seen it since and had forgotten about it. The shirt had mold growing all over it. On both arms and front and back. I sent John to get the spare set of clothes I had for her in the car and I took her to the bathroom and got her changed. I am keeping the shirt sealed in a ziplock baggie just in case stuff like this happens again. I am hoping to get digital photos up soon. I don't think anyone could even try and say he didn't notice this.

AHHHHHHHHHH!

2003-12-14T04:16:17Z

Ok today I went off on everyone because Bud and Mo were coming over. I now have a new bedroom set well kind of new anyway new to me. It was my birthday present from them. This was the first time Mo hass been here. They helped Wookie move stuff in but then bolted. I even invited them to stay but they declined. They wouldn't even take there coats off and stay a few mineuts. Ok I know that my house is not imaculate. I have spent the last few days making sure that everything is clean and by bedroom has never looked so good. I streesed out all day hoping to be able to get there apoval. did it work? No I don't think so.
Why do I do this to myself why do I care so much. I just about made myself sick to get ready for them to come over. And they would not even sit down. I just hate that it bothers me this much what they do and say and think. It drives me nuts and no matter what its never good enough.
Putting my life back together in the last year was not good enough getting on with things was not good enough. Nothing I do is good enough.
Then ther is Aaron I love him but he can be an a** hole. I mean he is. He has his shit together and thats great for him but dam I am not him nor wil I ever be him and we are not having even simalar lives at this point. Come on if we were not related like we would even agnolage the others exsistance. I am just saying.
But after all this I am mad at myself. I am the one who was snaping at Wookie and Serena the light of my life. Why because I was stressed trying to impress people who just found out I have been living with my fieance over 6 months now, and don't know we are engaged, even though my ex does. They don't know anything about me and that is my fault I don't tell them things because everytime I do they are just disapointed. Well I am sorry I dissapointed you so much but I happen to like my life thanks anyway. I know you think its a waste and that all I do is F*** up but its my life.

Finals Suck a**!

2003-12-11T15:37:09Z

Well to all of you who know me this will be no real suprise. My final is due today and I have not started it yet. OH shit, why do I do this to myself. I am sitting here instead of working on it I am doing anything else to keep from just writing the thing. I have all the info and I know what I have to do but getting to that point I have such a fu*king hard time. I need my degree, but have this sinking feeling that I am only getting this to prove to Bud and Mo that I am not the f*** up that they think I am. I mean it's not like being told your whole life that your stupid and will never amount to anything really have that much of an effect on a person.*insert years of therapy here* I mean come on I am a grown woman supporting myself and my daughter and in a stable relationship. I am not a failure right? So I had a bad marriage and divorce. Who cares and yes everyone I ever knew told me so. I am trying to move on doesn't anyone get that? Is it so hard to see I am trying not to make the same mistakes? For pete's sake I waited almost 2 1/2years before I even started to date. I think I am making better choices so why do I still think everyone is judging me for what I am doing? My friends either don't like John or don't know him and don't really want to. I just don't get it. Maybe I sould just stop caring what others think, but I can't it's not me and I don't exactly trust my own judgment anymore. Hello Joe? Do I have to say anymore.

opheliasrevenge @ 2003-10-28T19:17:00

2003-10-29T00:09:45Z

I just want to let everyone who was sending good thoughts a wishes our way we apreciat it. I just want to let you all know that Monday night I started bleeding and Wookie took me to the hospital where we spent a very nerve racking night and most of today. Unfortunitly there was nothing they could do and we lost the baby. Your thoughts and prayers are appeciated.